Best Bedtime Stories
8/21/2008
Sometimes you may want to talk with child about something that is really important. But, how do you find just the right time? Child experts say that just before a child goes to sleep is a very good time to have these talks because kids are usually the most impressionable at this time of day. Bedtime is also a good time to tell your child what you love and appreciate about them too. And to listen to them. You may want to check to see if there is anything that is bothering your child from school or with their friends. Ask about what is going on in their classroom. Ask them to tell you about playtime at school. Be slow to speak and listen quietly to their answers. You may notice too what they are NOT telling you. One of the best ways to encourage your child to be open and truthful with you is to not OVER react when they express sad, bad or mad feelings. Resist being judgmental or critical of their feelings. Let them talk about things that are not going well with them. Establishing these special talk times may be beneficial in the future to help your child get through a tough situation. Because now they know they can come to you for advice, for help, or for just a loving, listening ear.
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